So you’re going to a wedding this summer but you can’t face wearing heels? Don’t worry! En Brogue is here to help. I’ve written about this a few times before, but I had a request this week for an update, because let’s face it, there’s going to be loads more flat shoes on offer now than there was last summer. If you’re still worried about ditching your heels for a posh do, I hope I can persuade you to switch to flats because you’ll have a MUCH better time. Tricky staircase to manoeuvre? No problem. Cobbled street to get to the venue? Bring it on. Amazing band playing you want to dance all night to? Just try and stop me!

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This was me at my brother’s wedding last summer. I went about as unconventional as it gets – well, I didn’t wear jeans and a T-shirt, but you get the drift. No dress AND no heels. And I can tell you this: I had the BEST time on the dance floor. I even stole an older gentleman’s orange braces to complete my outfit and use as a dance prop…

Anyway, I digress – what about you? There are a few tricks that might help in your transition. If you still want to look feminine and have a similar effect to a pair of heeled courts, try a pointed toe flat. I’ve said it many times, but there’s something about that pointed toe that mimics the feeling you get from a pair of heels, and it also helps to lengthen your legs. Plus, if you find a shoe with a low cut vamp (that just means it shows more of your foot, and preferably some toe cleavage) you’ll give your legs even more of a helping hand. These are the perfect shoes to wear with a shift or fitted dress. There are lots of metallic styles around at the moment.

Zara
strappy shoes, ยฃ39.99, zara.com (BUY ME HERE!)
Dune
Amarie flats, ยฃ55, dunelondon.com (BUY ME HERE!)
Sandro flats
Sandro pumps, ยฃ290, selfridges.com (BUY ME HERE!)

How about a bit of embellishment? I know some women feel they need to compensate for the lack of heels by wearing really snazzy flats (like those poor women who got turned away from the red carpet in their rhinestone flats at Cannes earlier this week) and although I don’t agree that you have to do this, there are some lovely shoes in the style that work really well for a wedding. If sparkles aren’t your thing, look for snake-effect leather or this season’s hot feature – ghillie laces. Just avoid it on round-toed ballet pumps or risk looking like you’re on your way to an 8th birthday party.

Office ghillie glitter
Ghillie lace-ups, ยฃ60, office.co.uk (BUY ME HERE!)
Topshop snake
Voltage pumps, ยฃ18, topshop.com (BUY ME HERE!)

I also think white shoes are an absolute winner, particularly if you’re going for something more masculine. I felt great in my monks from Northern Cobbler (sadly they’re not available anymore). This is a good option for anyone wearing trousers, though I would advise picking something cropped or rolling up the hems so you show your ankles. It’s MUCH more flattering.

ASOS white
Maddison shoes, ยฃ28, asos.com (BUY ME HERE!)
Northern Cobbler
Damselfish loafers, ยฃ210, northerncobbler.com (BUY ME HERE!) – you can can 15% off with EnBrogue until the end of May – find out how here!
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Rose brogues, ยฃ195, grenson.co.uk (BUY ME HERE!)

I hope that helps any of you looking for wedding guest shoes (or brides-to-be come to that – because why shouldn’t the bride wear flats too?). The best thing of all is that you can invest in a pair of shoes you’re likely to wear again; all of these would looking brilliant just with a simple white shirt and jeans. I’d love to see what flat shoes you’re wearing to weddings this summer, so tweet me a picture to @EnBrogue or tag me on Instagram.

4 thoughts on “ What to wear to a wedding when you don’t want to wear heels ”

  1. Great post. It would be good to see the rest of your outfit to see what you were wearing on top! ๐Ÿ˜ƒ

  2. Last week I wore pointed pumps to a friend’s wedding and felt great! I was able to enjoy the day and was hardly off the dance floor. Choose the right pumps for the occasion and you’ll not only feel confident but you’ll look fab too!

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